What is Love?

Song: Memories by Panic! At the Disco, and I Want You Back by N'Sync (gotta relive those memories sometime!)
Time: 10:22
Mood: Indifferent :\

I'm supposed to be in my Math class, but we didn't really have anything else to do, so I decided to get on the computer and write. However, it's getting a little late into the period, so, I don't have a lot of time.

But, there's a few things I have on my mind, and I was wanting to share these with other people who are in a relationship - long term or otherwise (except for maybe just FWB's) that people should think about before they move on with their relationship.

You should already know about their goals, their likes and dislikes, (or learning them) that he or texts at 2 in the morning just to say goodnight/I love you, etc, but you may still feel a little insecure. Here are some questions I have had, and here are some of my thoughts:

• Is he or she who she really says she is?  Their friends that they keep, and the activities that they do throughout the day is usually a good way to see if someone is who they pretend to be - a nice person may volunteer, while a closed-off person may work all the time.

• Is he or she true to you?  Well, don't jump to conclusions in any situation. The best thing to do is be sure in yourself. If you're confident in your relationship with your significan other, the better your relationship will be. If he or she looks at an attractive person, don't get discouraged. It's okay to just look.

• Are they not giving you enough attention? Once again, don't get discouraged. They could be busy at work or busy with school, perhaps both. The best thing you can do is be there for them during the time, and when they finally have free time, go out, do something with your spouce! It'll show them that you can stick with them through tough times.

• Do they text other people when they're around you?  Obviously, if they're texting other people when they're around you, it must not be too bad, right? They're not hiding anything, so it's not bad. If you feel like they ARE hiding something, however, just say "Hey, can I look at your phone?" But, don't just say that, say "You can look through mine, too, if you want." It shows that you're curious, but if neither of you have nothing to hide, then everything should be alright.

That's all for now. If any of y'all have any questions about relationships, or anything else, I'd be happy to help. Just leave a comment or whatever and I'll get back to you in my next blog.
This is KaraDianne signing off, and wishing everyone a good day.